Okay, so here is my third attempt (and hopefully my final) at writing a comment because my phone sucked donkey balls the first two times at posting:
HOLY SHIT BRO! A friend of mine posted a reddit link on FB about straight guys having gay experiences and I randomly came across your post about you and your bro Adam. Besides being incredibly HOT, your story was incredibly honest and emotionally passionate. By the end of your last post (when you guys were still living together), I wanted you guys to ride off into the fucking sunset and never look back. It's depressing as HELL and heartbreaking to see it not working out for you guys. After all of the shit you guys went through with each other: crazy pressure from school, roommate experience, frat shenanigans, school/sport parties, girlfriends, making out with each other, naked around the house with each other, sexy times with each other, big spoon/little spoon (my favorite part of the story), happy times, sad times, graduating together, etc... it's easy to see you guys are TRULY IN LOVE with each other. I don't think there's a person out there that doesn't wish for at least half of that - and come out still deeply in love with that person - like you guys still are with each other. It's fucking brilliant, man. I hope to Jesus you guys can work your shit out and Adam will come around. Maybe his hesitation stems from something else from his childhood? Like maybe he's scared of getting hurt by you or scared of being deserted? I know I had/have that problem still when it comes to my relationship. After I recognized that fear a few years ago, it's easier to identify those insecure feelings and communicate to my man what I'm feeling. (BTW, I've been with my boyfriend for almost 8 years now...so there's hope!)
I'm going to keep coming back to your blog to check your updates because I BELIEVE in you guys. This is serious fucking "The Notebook" shit you are writing. It can make anyone believe in true love.
PS - You don't have to only write about you and Adam on your blog! You're a great writer!
Sorry for the "word wall" :) I know you may not be posting regularly any more because things haven't changed, or because they didn't change for the better (believe me, I'm knocking on wood), but I want you to know something. It's true that reading here that things didn't work out for you would be like a child hearing that there is no Santa Clause, but the truth of the matter is... there isn't; that's reality, it happens. And even though, your many fans and well wishers (present company included) have described what you and he have together as rare and unconventionally awesome, I want you to be sure and doubly sure to know that there is as much love out there in the world as you are willing to give, and it has your name written all over it. If he is not willing to accept himself as bravely as you did, I am deeply sorry, and considerably sad for him. I hope he sees you. I hope he sees him self. I hope the love that you have for him brings and binds you together. I really do. Because the truth of the matter is it's too late already, you're already in the thick of it, and just because it may stay quiet a little while, love isn't too shy about springing out of your chest and slapping you with a big "I told you so" too many years down the line for things to change. I really hope it's Adam, but even if not, you are going to find someone, and you are going to be happy with the real assurance that you gave your heart a chance even before your brain had the time cough out the word "gender", and it was real, and you are remarkable for it. I didn't mean to offend with anything I said. Only love from this guy, and fond, fond hope. Thank you so much for all you've shared. ~Andrew
cmon man update us, how are things? I hope well......I assume you're busy with each other and thats why you haven't made another post....or so I hope. I'm in the same situation as you and damn is it confusing.
This, amazingly, pretty much mirrors one year of mine in high school and a couple years of college, though we never went past hanging out naked, and a little bit of public kissing. And now I'm in a different gay relationship (been together 14 years) and my HS best friend is with a woman. When I came out to him and asked for something more is when it all went to hell.
Well, I hope you guys can sort out, whatever this is.I think you should just be straight forward with him, lay it all all out on the table for him, let him know what you feel, be firm, that way, you'll have a solid clue as to where this relationship is headed, maybe you can continue in a platonic, semi-romantic relationship thingy, become serious, or you can actually move on to something better. Remember, you deserve to be happy, you can find that with someone who will feel the same toward you as you do toward him / her.
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Okay, so here is my third attempt (and hopefully my final) at writing a comment because my phone sucked donkey balls the first two times at posting:
ReplyDeleteHOLY SHIT BRO! A friend of mine posted a reddit link on FB about straight guys having gay experiences and I randomly came across your post about you and your bro Adam. Besides being incredibly HOT, your story was incredibly honest and emotionally passionate. By the end of your last post (when you guys were still living together), I wanted you guys to ride off into the fucking sunset and never look back. It's depressing as HELL and heartbreaking to see it not working out for you guys. After all of the shit you guys went through with each other: crazy pressure from school, roommate experience, frat shenanigans, school/sport parties, girlfriends, making out with each other, naked around the house with each other, sexy times with each other, big spoon/little spoon (my favorite part of the story), happy times, sad times, graduating together, etc... it's easy to see you guys are TRULY IN LOVE with each other. I don't think there's a person out there that doesn't wish for at least half of that - and come out still deeply in love with that person - like you guys still are with each other. It's fucking brilliant, man. I hope to Jesus you guys can work your shit out and Adam will come around. Maybe his hesitation stems from something else from his childhood? Like maybe he's scared of getting hurt by you or scared of being deserted? I know I had/have that problem still when it comes to my relationship. After I recognized that fear a few years ago, it's easier to identify those insecure feelings and communicate to my man what I'm feeling. (BTW, I've been with my boyfriend for almost 8 years now...so there's hope!)
I'm going to keep coming back to your blog to check your updates because I BELIEVE in you guys. This is serious fucking "The Notebook" shit you are writing. It can make anyone believe in true love.
PS - You don't have to only write about you and Adam on your blog! You're a great writer!
I can't wait to hear more about this. Your story is incredible. I want things to work out for you so badly!
ReplyDeleteWelllllll? :) We're waiting! Ok, or at least I am!
ReplyDeleteSorry for the "word wall" :)
ReplyDeleteI know you may not be posting regularly any more because things haven't changed, or because they didn't change for the better (believe me, I'm knocking on wood), but I want you to know something.
It's true that reading here that things didn't work out for you would be like a child hearing that there is no Santa Clause, but the truth of the matter is... there isn't; that's reality, it happens. And even though, your many fans and well wishers (present company included) have described what you and he have together as rare and unconventionally awesome, I want you to be sure and doubly sure to know that there is as much love out there in the world as you are willing to give, and it has your name written all over it.
If he is not willing to accept himself as bravely as you did, I am deeply sorry, and considerably sad for him.
I hope he sees you. I hope he sees him self. I hope the love that you have for him brings and binds you together. I really do. Because the truth of the matter is it's too late already, you're already in the thick of it, and just because it may stay quiet a little while, love isn't too shy about springing out of your chest and slapping you with a big "I told you so" too many years down the line for things to change.
I really hope it's Adam, but even if not, you are going to find someone, and you are going to be happy with the real assurance that you gave your heart a chance even before your brain had the time cough out the word "gender", and it was real, and you are remarkable for it.
I didn't mean to offend with anything I said. Only love from this guy, and fond, fond hope.
Thank you so much for all you've shared.
~Andrew
cmon man update us, how are things? I hope well......I assume you're busy with each other and thats why you haven't made another post....or so I hope. I'm in the same situation as you and damn is it confusing.
ReplyDeleteJust a random guy saying that people are still reading, hoping for updates, and wishing you luck. :)
ReplyDeleteThis, amazingly, pretty much mirrors one year of mine in high school and a couple years of college, though we never went past hanging out naked, and a little bit of public kissing. And now I'm in a different gay relationship (been together 14 years) and my HS best friend is with a woman. When I came out to him and asked for something more is when it all went to hell.
ReplyDeleteWell, I hope you guys can sort out, whatever this is.I think you should just be straight forward with him, lay it all all out on the table for him, let him know what you feel, be firm, that way, you'll have a solid clue as to where this relationship is headed, maybe you can continue in a platonic, semi-romantic relationship thingy, become serious, or you can actually move on to something better. Remember, you deserve to be happy, you can find that with someone who will feel the same toward you as you do toward him / her.
ReplyDeleteIts been 4 years...i hope there is some resolution...some of us are patiently waiting.
ReplyDeletebeen waiting for the day u two will sort things out....😍😍😍
ReplyDeleteHello everyone! I'm writing this article to appreciate the good work of DR OGALA that helped me recently to bring back my wife that left me for another man for the past 6 months. After seeing a comment of a woman on the internet testifying of how she was helped by DR OGALA. I also decided to contact him for help because all I wanted was for me to get my wife, happiness and to make sure that my child grows up with his mother. Am happy today that he helped me and I can proudly say that my wife is now with me again and she is now in love with me like never before. Are you in need of any help in your relationship like getting back your man, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend? Viewers reading my post that needs the help of DR OGALA should contact him via E-mail: ogalasolutiontemple@gmail.com You can also call or contact him via WhatsApp +2349123794867
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